With skirts - do same and when they're on the floor, step out of them. Sex is always an option after the lap dance. Not Helpful 10 Helpful Place a cube in your mouth and run it along your lover's body or brush it across your nipples to set them firm.
Giphy No dance is complete without gyrating hip movement. Think smooth and seductive. Keeping your hands in contact with your body let them ride up your sides and back towards the nape of your neck. I have, for about three minutes.
Unwrap one leg from the back of the chair, then the other. Lap dances are sexier if you're not doing them under garish lights. Be sensual, and close your eyes. If you don't want to do it or you think you're not ready then don't do it. He will definitely like it. Don't even let your bodies touch.